And After
September 13th, 2023 To live a life without regrets, One on your own terms and in your own way, Of your own rules, a mold of your own clay. As a guide, led by those before you, An obligation to those who come after you, To those who have lost their light, To those in a new land, a new culture, a new life. As an exemplar, a role model, a bastion of support, A father, grandfather, Partner, brother, uncle, mother, Sister, friend, chosen family A source for those in need. As a constant presence, To express love, affection, adoration, Even with words or without. To be relied upon and be reliable, Food on the table, Clothes on their backs, For those you cherish to never want for anything. To celebrate the wins, however simple, But to never forget the losses -- however small. To find the tiniest moments of joy, the humor -- But to not dismiss the pangs of sadness, The impetus for growth. To continue the legacy of those who