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A Letter for My Sister

June 1st, 2020 -- 5:15PM   Dear Nandini,       I've come back to this opening line for the past 1.5 years though every time I did, I was never really sure what to say or how to organize my thoughts.  Every few months, I'd pick up this journal -- stare at the words and set it down again.  To be honest, I still don't know what to say but I think it's time.  So, here goes.     We somehow got to a point in our lives where I dreaded talking to you.  In fact, I couldn't even stand to hear about you from Mom + Dad.  If I didn't know what was going on -- then I couldn't feel all the emotions I usually did: anger, confusion, sadness, but most of all -- helplessness.  I could protect myself, I guess -- bury myself in the obligations of school and casually continue to think that my friend- and me-centric views would erase anything that was going on with you.  It was selfish, I suppose -- immature.  I'm embarrassed to say that I felt relief every holiday I knew you